why we gather / what we ask

We believe it takes effort, intentionality, and presence to make real connections—to encounter strangers, share rituals, and build community.

And we believe there are reasons these things feel so hard today.

• We’re all reaching for something real, in a world that keeps us apart.

• The answer is to show up anyway.

• To ground ourselves with shared rituals.

• And by gathering with strangers, to re-bind what we unraveled.

Making this works means co-creating a space designed for openness, connection, and just a little bit of courage.

Here’s what we ask of every guest:

• Come open. Arrive curious, kind, and willing to meet someone new.

• Connect 1:1. Our gatherings aren’t about mingling, flirting, or networking. They’re about meaningful individual connection.

• Be present. Put your phone away. The people here are the point.

• Honor your commitment. Show up on time. Stay the full time. Your presence matters.

• Take risks. Share something real. Go a little deeper than usual.

• No performance required. This isn’t about being interesting, impressive, or “on.” You’re not here to sell yourself—you’re here to be yourself.

• Be generous. If someone sparks something for you, offer to reconnect—or support their story however you can.