connection

face-to-face human

over ritual, community, and a little play

we design social experiences where every detail is crafted for actually seeing other people—and being seen.

Every gathering is personal—curated tables, a letter just for you, themes that matter, and real conversations.

It starts with a connection profile. You’ll get an instant result about how you connect—and when you show up, we’ll use it to craft an experience unique to you.

“Uplifting—a much‑needed break from my ordinary routine”.

“A safe space, carefully curated .... cards are wonderfully written to facilitate conversation.”

“A great night of intentional connection and friendship with strangers.”

“Warm, inviting, and a fun way to get to know strangers. Time well spent; I’d bring friends next time.

how it works

we host curated gatherings that make meeting new people feel easy, real, and actually fun.

Each event centers on small-group connection. We match tables through your connection profile, then guide the evening with playful structure, community rituals, and meaningful prompts.

We used a shared game to create a container for something magical and a little rare. The real design is in the way we help you connect—with others & yourself.

Ligare isn’t dating, networking, board game night, or therapy. It’s a night of laughter, presence, and unexpected resonance—with people you might not have met otherwise.

we host events all over Houston, all the time.
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why we do it

people are wired for connection, but most of us don’t have a place for it.

Community used to live in the spaces between home and work. now we live on screens. we move fast. and we often connect through apps instead of eye contact.

Humans have always built spaces that bind us to each other—and back to ourselves. We did it through ritual, shared ideals, and real conversation. But somewhere along the way, we lost those spaces.

ligare means to bind. We’re here to rebuild the kind of gathering space that brings people together, face to face, in real time, with just enough structure to make it easy.

it’s a modern ritual: designed to make connection and community easy, fun, and meaningful again.

common questions

  • Our gatherings usually take place over a meal. You’ll put on a nametag, sit with new friends, light a candle, play a game together, and discuss life along the way. It’s one of those things where the details don’t really capture the full experience—trust us.

  • Curious ones. People who want more from their city than bars and swiping. Most come solo. Ages and backgrounds vary, but our guests all show up open to just being human with other people—and remark on that vibe when they leave.

  • Yes to both. Our experience is designed around solo guests; you’ll be thoughtfully paired and welcomed by a table ready for you. If you’re showing up with a friend or partner, just let us know—we can seat you together or apart.

  • Yup, both.

    We match tables based on what you told us about your personality, and try to keep the energy matched—extroversion, openness, competitiveness.

    Some of our guests love meeting everyone; some of our guests love that we offer a more intimate way to meet a few people over a real activity. Both are welcome, both leave feeling something real.

  • This is the fun part.

    We use different weighting depending on the event, but use more than 10 factors from your Connection Profile. We match you on vibe, with the most emphasis on how you connect with others, not surface details like age and gender.

    Guests overwhelmingly tell us we got something right. But this often means you meet people you wouldn’t otherwise meet—different age brackets, walks of life—and leave feeling like the world is a little smaller and a little closer.

  • Nope. We pick games that are clever and easy to learn, give you previews in advance, and make sure you can learn it at the table.

    But also: trust us, the games aren’t the point.

  • Every ticket includes your matched table, deep discussion, games, and personalized details—a letter just for you based on your results about your table for the night.

    Some events include a first drink—check the event description. At most events, food and drink is offered separately through our restaurant partners.

95% of guests say they’ll come back, and then they do. join us and see why.

pick a night. take a seat. come play.

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We’ll follow up with a short Connection Profile to help us pair you with the right people, and you’ll learn your Connection Suit result in minutes.

It's fast, fun, and helps us create gatherings that actually feel good.

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